Wishing UpON a sTAR
hmmm.. reading linus mei's blog set me thinking abit too... he's getting naggy. haha... perhaps he's getting mature too.. hmm.. but definitely things made a huge,gigiantic impact on him... poor thing. sigh...
but then again, i really admire mei's decisiveness. hmm... think he must really care for wz alot, perhaps romantic love is not involved anymore, but i am sure he still loves her as a friend, as a companian, as a friend tt is close to heart... coz' after all they've been thru so much... and it's true that if u know that things are not working out or when u know that the love between is not there anymore, u shouldn't drag. dragging such things harms both parties. not only does it make each other worse off, it also waste time. i mean, i am alrfeady 22, and some of u are reaching 20. if u're lucky, u can get married tml, and if u're normal typical girl, u would wan to get settled down at 26-28. see! if u will to drag on and u know tt ultimately u won't be together, why waste each other's youth? why waste each other's chance to get a better life partner?
that's why i think dawn and amos are rather.. hmmm... weird couple. on and off. on and off.. it's true that they love one another deeply, but if they know they are not meant to be together, why drag? no point to keep breaking one another's hearts again and again and again... infinitely.
there was this saying that "tears are the best remedy for broken heart", and my dearest had actually reached a pt that, she can't cry anymore.. cry without tears, since one can't tear anymore, then how to heal a broken heart? sigh.. poor thing. sometimes when eugene said sth that upset me, i felt as thought ppl are stabbing my heart using sharp knifes. there were intense sharp pain in the heart, and tears were flow. so i can imagine, she had experienced much greater pains than such compared to mine. mine is like NOTHING. great thing is that she broke up with him already, and she's happily ever after. i am happy for her. really. truly happy for her.
not tt i encourage break up, but after much consideration/ ponder, and u know that there is no love btw anymore, u dun see any future with that person, why waste time? why not just wish each other well, hope that he/she will find a better one one day, since u know u're not good enough for her/him?
why not just be happy that after all, u two shared sweet memory, and u have experienced the greatest thing on earth, called love?
lastly, why not pray that each other will be happy again?
oh man... feeling so proud of myself. ^_^ great thinker! think i can be those aunty betty or sth. ahhahahaha.. answering those relationship questions!
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