with each seconds, time passes, and people change. change in ppl is inevitable. u can't stop urself from changing and of course, u cant stop others from changing too.. actually changes in ppl are acceptable most of the time, BUT, the changes made must be good... coz' some people will just turn bad, and forget all the times that u two spent together. and they din even bother to keep contact with u.. which i think is terribly sad...

secondly, it's not easy to keep a long distance friendship. even u were very very close last time, it will drift apart.. yes, it will.. it's too tedious and too tiring to keep up.. esp both in two different place and each starts a new circle of friends... so there will be too many ppl around.. it would be too crowded.. and too tiring to go here and there...

this reminds me of carol.. i am never an initiative person. i won't go out unless someone asked me to go out and i will consider whether to go out or not. yes, dun tell me, i know i am dead lazy. but then, i guess this costs the friendship between me and carol. we were so close then.. but then? we are like.. i dunno how to u call that. its like we meet up once or twice a year, and she would either bring her jc friends along or her boyfriend. = ( oh well.. guess i've replaced. ppl change, and i wont blame her.. coz' as long as she's happy.. and as long as.. there are times she tot of me, that would be sufficient..

"Go oft to the house of thy friend, for weeds choke the unused path" --Ralph Waldo Emerson